What I Didn’t Mention….
July 31st, 2006 at 3:21 pm (Unschooling Life)
From the comments in Unschooling and the Cure for Cancer:
“We talked about the curse, about comic characters (the porter) inserted into tragedies, about sets and stage dressings, about soliloquies, about envy and power and guilt, about language, etc., etc.”
See, that’s what scares me about unschooling. There are a million topics like this one that I could never have an intelligent discussion about.
This is such a prevalent fear among people considering unschooling (or homeschooling, in general), but it really needn’t be.
See, what I didn’t mention in the post was that I was reading through the Usborne and Macbeth for Kids books, too. We did Macbeth in high school at some point, but I can’t say I remember much of it. I knew about the curse because I used to be a theatre brat in my teens, and I remember some of the actors discussing it once. Even with my BA in English, I still don’t feel as comfortable with The Bard as I’d like, but I have no problem learning alongside Kenzie. We both know more about Macbeth today than we did when we woke up Saturday.
I don’t have to know it all. I don’t even have to pretend that I know it all. That’s one of the great things about unschooling - I’m learning, too, and my son definitely notices. I am living proof that learning never ends, and he sees this (even at my oh-so-advanced age of 29) as completely normal. We regularly find ourselves looking things up that neither of us understands. And, quite often, he ends up enlightening me!
For instance, we have bats in our yard after sundown. This is something we’ve never come across before. We’ve seen bats at the Congress Avenue bridge here in Austin (the largest urban bat colony in the world), and I’ve watched them at Carlsbad Caverns, but we’ve never encountered them in our own yard, flying around and around our heads only a few inches from our eyes. So, Kenzie, my mother and I were discussing them. He knew much more about bats than his grandmother and I combined, so we happily asked him questions.
This is the way it is with unschooling. I don’t know everything that comes up in our lives, and that’s fine. That’s the way life is. We find ways to learn what we need and want to know. Kenzie knows I can figure out most of the math he hasn’t grasped yet, and I know that, when I run into a mythological figure I don’t recognize in a story or poem, he can probably help me out.
We’re both learning as we go along - from each other and from the world around us.
Tammy Takahashi said,
July 31, 2006 at 5:06 pm
Shana, this is exactly right. Unschooling is not a child-led model of learning. It’s a family-learning approach. You jump in all together. Learning is not “what kids do”. Learning is forever, and for everyone.
All I have to say, is thank God for the Internet (and the library), and blogs like this one.
Kim c said,
August 1, 2006 at 9:21 am
I hear ya. That is my favorite thing about this journey, the chance I get to have a self designed education at my own pace!
dharmamama said,
August 1, 2006 at 1:31 pm
Thanks for the follow-up Shana!
TONI said,
August 11, 2006 at 8:50 am
Good for you! Funny I just had friends visit and the mom is a 7th grade teacher. I was telling her that the most irritating thing people ask me is if I am worried that the day will come when I don’t know enough to teach my son. Of course I am worried about that and so many other things, but we are learning together and have tons of resources available to us. So I asked her, “do you know everything you need to know to teach all your students everything every year?” She said no, of course not, I learn what I need to know as I go along. So there it is!
Toni